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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 20.06.2025 08:22

How does one succeed in life?

What I need from you?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Why do atheists love to preach against Abrahamic religions and mock God? Even if they do not fear the eternal fire of hell, pious Muslims will certainly not leave them alone and will take brutal revenge until they surrender and repent of their sins.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Why do I keep dreaming of my mom, who recently passed away from cancer, still being sick and in pain?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How strict are your parents?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Hangs out with loser friends.

That's it for today.

What is the irony of life according to you?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Is the Philippines PH a poor 3rd world or 4th world country forever and forever?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

I see ugly guys dating gorgeous, "hot" women all the time. I, too, am not very attractive but I'm not doing well with the ladies. What's their secret?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Why do I get stressed when I go to bed?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

What's an underrated/unknown novel or series that you think deserves more attention?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Who is the most dangerous or evilest person of all time?

Ask yourself:

Does not procrastinate.

Making more friends is a goal.

What do you think will be the biggest factor in determining whether Daniel Penny was justified in believing that Jordan Neely had posed a deadly threat in the manslaughter trial?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Why did lobsters evolve bright colors if they are neither poisonous nor venomous?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.